As a child, I learned a song called
“Kindness Begins with Me.”
A Happy Marriage
begins with me, too!
I get what it’s like to feel disconnected in a marriage. I felt that way for YEARS. I also get how it feels to be stuck and wonder what is missing and what I can do to improve my marriage – to get that old flame back or at least a spark back!
If you can relate and would like to take your marriage to the next level – upwards and positive that is – then one of the keys is to get in touch with the True Divine You.
“But wait!” you might say. “Doesn’t my spouse need to change, too? Just working on me won’t fix him/her.”
My husband uses this insightful analogy. Suppose you are red and your spouse is blue. We know that when we mix red and blue we get purple. Well, if you don’t like purple, you can tell your spouse to change their color or offer encouragement for them to do so.
But, it is often easier – and wiser – to change our own color. So if we change from red to yellow and then mix with our blue spouse, we have a beautiful green. And hopefully, whatever change you do will create a color that you like a whole lot more than the original.
So, how do you do that? Here are some questions to consider: